Spotlight Series: Rett Boys!  [Part One]

Spotlight Series: Rett Boys! [Part One]

We are so excited to highlight an extremely important group of people in our Rett family, our Rett BOYS. Rett Syndrome is well known as a disease that affects mainly girls, but we have some strong fighters among us and we think they and their family deserve to be heard. For the next several months we’ll be highlighting these one in a million Rett Boys, sharing their stories and how we are all working hard to come together on behalf of all of our kiddos across our communities.
Jen Ballard is mom to son AJ and is the newest member of our GP2C Power Team! Jen shares with us a bit about their journey with Rett Syndrome and their strong fighter AJ.
What is one piece of advice you would give to a Rett mom who is struggling?
Don’t give up. It’s not going to be easy, but whatever you do, don’t give up. At times, it seems impossible, and lonely, but your child knows what’s happening and I believe they know you are trying and doing the best that you can. Try not to compare your situation with another. Every child will have similarities, however, there are many that have differences too.
What would you tell a newly diagnosed family?

Don’t jump on the internet and start researching right away. I did that, and it was the worst thing I could of ever done. Start local and then branch out. Look for support groups but be cautious. Most of the times, they are very helpful, however, I feel that sometimes, they can be depressing too. And the big thing, don’t change your expectations for your child. Treat them and get them involved in organizations and programs just as you would a child without Rett.

How is Rett Syndrome different in boys than girls?
This is a hard question to answer because all the boys I have met along the way are so diverse. Some similarities are that the boys have seizures and breathing issues. Some differences are that I have seen is that the boys don’t always have the hand wringing that the girls have. They also seem to regress a lot faster. My son started showing signs that something was wrong around 3-4 months and at a year we almost lost him. He had a tracheotomy and a feeding tube inserted, and I truly believe that this intervention saved him. However, we didn’t start seeing seizure activity until he was about a year and half. That’s when we had the epileptic genetic panel done and found out about the MeCP2 male deletion. The biggest difference between boys and girls with Rett Syndrome that I have seen is that most boys do not have a deletion of the X chromosome (like my son has) … they usually have a duplication, triplication or even a quadruplication which means that there are extra sections added on to the MeCP2 part of the chromosome. And according to research, most boys who have this don’t make it out of utero, or they pass within 18 months-2 years … so every boy that is older is a miracle.
What is your Rett Boys favorite activity? AJ loves music! Music therapy is his favorite thing to do. We are working with him with switches because he has some mobility in his right arm and we have some switch adapted toys we work with as well. He also loves the water.
What has been your biggest struggle so far?

Finding support. It’s been very challenging to find others that “get” us. We have found some other families in the same boat, but we are spread out around the country and the world. Trying to get involved with medical trials Is difficult as well. The life expectancy of boys is short and sometimes I feel like we are just treating the symptoms and just passing time until the inevitable day. We need to bring more awareness in general about Rett Syndrome and help others understand that our incredible boys are impacted as well.

What has brought you the most joy?
AJ’s smile and the way his sister interacts and cares for him. It is truly a bond that is so beautiful to experience. The love they have for each other is incredible.
How do you continue to make time for yourself?
This is a tough question to answer. The last time I took time for myself was when I went for a massage and pedicure back in June. And before that, it was about a year ago. I took a day got out. Between appointments, work, taking care of AJ and his sister, there has not been a lot of me time.
What do your Rett Boys goals look like?
For doctors to test for this sooner and make this test a part of the newborn screening for boys and girls and to bring boys out of the shadows and give them a fighting chance and a stronger voice.
Special thanks to Jenn and her family for sharing your insight and perspective. If you are the parent of a Rett Boy, we want you to know that you are NOT alone. We see you and we want to hear from you. Contact Kristin at Kristin@gp2c.org to learn more about the family support available for you and your family at GP2C.
Together, we are making impact for our kiddos both for today and tomorrow.
2017 Holiday Gift Guide!

2017 Holiday Gift Guide!

2017 Holiday Gift Guide!

This is our 9th Annual Holiday Gift Guide!!  We have so many exciting gift ideas for your special Rett child!  We have covered every age, ability and BUDGET!  Find direct links to all of these gifts by searching these products on RettGirl.org! Check it out, let us know what you think and ADD your ideas in the comments!
1. Beamz:
 The gift of music! Beamz Home is universally designed so that anyone, regardless of age or ability level, can actively participate in making music.

2. Chooseit! Maker 3: 
Create, edit and play personalized learning materials in the home or the classroom!

 

 

 

 


3. Custom horse riding helmet: 
For our girls who are doing therapeutic horseback riding this is a great gift! Choose your barn colors or just pick your favorites.

4.  Sweat pants with feet:

Super cozy, ultra plush, sherpa fabric lined feet to create the ultimate sweatpants that you’ll never want to take off.
 
 
5. North Face Pancho:
The North Face Girls Oso Poncho is perfect whenever the cold winds blow.  Made out of a super smooth, incredibly warm, silky fleece that’s so cozy you’ll have a hard time taking it off her.
Give Back! 
Choose Girl Power 2 Cure as your charity and a portion of your purchase will be donated to GP2C! Click Here.

6. Mermaid Blanket:
Keep your Rett child warm, cozy and CUTE!  With this knitted mermaid blanket.  Lots of colors to choose from!
 
 
7. Aquapod:
This movable lagoon is like an ocean or pool only better, because it can be placed anywhere in your backyard. Your Rett child can, roll, lie, sit, make waves, chase the fish, and just giggle. Crafted of sturdy vinyl, it includes 12 colorful “large” fish inside but you can add extra!

8. Munch mits:
 For our younger Rett kiddos that have a tendency to hand mouth this is a great solution! The Munch Mitt prevents the constant dropping of teething toys and protects the hands from irritation due to chewing.   Designed for up to 12 months old.
9.  Echo Show:
Echo Show brings you everything you love about Alexa, but now she can show you things. Watch video flash briefings, Amazon Video content, see music lyrics, security cameras, photos, weather forecasts, to-do and shopping lists, and more, All hands-free!  For your Rett child to really get into the action program her AAC device so she can take control!

10.  Princess Canopy:
This decorative canopy envelops kids in an imaginary world of enchantment. Hang it from the ceiling over a play space or a twin-size bed, or suspend it from a tree limb for outdoor play. The Hideaway features fluttering ribbons attached to a large, colorful flower canopy and nylon tie-backs.

11. moon in my room:
Enjoy the shining beauty of the moon right at home with Moon in My Room. This realistic moon model hangs on your wall and lights up to show the different phases of the moon. It lets your Rett child experience the awe-inspiring sight of our moon at any time.

12. Soap on a rope:

fabulously fragrant, creamy, and kind to your skin! Your Rett Girl will love being pampered by this set of two heart shaped soaps on a cotton rope.

Check out our past Holiday gift guides in our past RettGirl! Magazines HEREAnd flip through our current Holiday Magazine below!
 
 
13. Crotcheed Princess Dress Blanket:
 Adorable princess dress blanket. Features holes to slip your arms through so it looks like you’re wearing a princess dress while keeping warm.
 
14. Fairy Wings Lounge Pillow: 
Who needs a wand? Anyone who curls up in this cuddly, comfy, whisper-soft, shaped pillow automatically becomes a fairy—complete with wings  
15.  Chilly Cheeks:
It’s easy to enjoy all your outdoor activities with a Chilly Cheeks Seat. Simply freeze or microwave your flexible, non-toxic gel pack and go. This seat cover cools when it’s hot and warms when it’s not.
16. WeatherBreaker Canopy:
this canopy attaches to wheelchairs to protect you from the sun and rain. It’s great for getting to and from therapy, daily errands, waiting at the bus stop … whenever you need it!

 
17.  Dance and Move BeatBo:
Get the dance party started by pressing BeatBo’s tummy or any of the buttons on his feet to activate fun songs, learning content and dance moves. Record a phrase, and he’ll remix it into his favorite song. And through all the play, BeatBo introduces letters, colors, counting, music, cause & effect and much more.
 
 
18.  DreamTents:

Fun pop up tents that give your Rett child their own private world at night.  There’s an under the sea world, a fairy tale forest, a winter wonderland, a space adventure and many more!  DreamTents make bedtime fun!

19.  Curved Platform Swing:
This curved platform swing supports up to four kids. Sit, stand, or lie on the comfy fabric mat and enjoy the ride!

20. Hugibo:
 this in not your average beanbag!  Hugibo is the perfect pillow companion for reading, relaxing, or just snuggling.  He will wrap his arms right around your Rett child and if all the hugs get him a little dirty, no worries, just zip off his outer cover and throw it right in the washing machine.